My Advice for New Mamas.

**Disclaimer: Everyone is different. Your experience may vary.

Being a mama is hard. There will be moments that you will cry (from the hormones, from the exhaustion, from the joy, from the frustration... you get where I'm going). There will be moments that you honestly cannot believe that this is your life now. There will be moments where you miss the way your life was before, & others where you just can't remember what it was like without this little innocent soul in your home.

And there's no manual for this wild ride, folks. That's right, planners, get ready to "wing it" for the first time in your life. Regardless of all that, here are my tips for all you brand new mamas.

1. Breastfeeding is hard. Talk to that lactation consultant, switch to formula, or pump so your man can help with the feedings while you get some sleep. Do whatever will help you maintain your sanity. Which reminds me...

2. Maintain your sanity. Seriously, you may have dreamed of being a mom your whole life (ahem, hello folks), & then when it's really happening you might feel like exploding because it's not as natural as you thought it might be. But that's okay. Just do whatever it is that will help you be the best mom you can be. Take a break, do something you enjoy, go out, sleep!

3. Remember that if your baby is fed, changed, & loved, that is all you can do. Sometimes babies just cry, & that's not your fault. (Make sure he/she isn't hurt or sick of course!)

4. Let daddy (or grandma, grandpa, aunt, uncle, etc.) take over for a while so you can feel like a normal person again. You are not a zombie. You don't have to spend the rest of your life covered in spit up & wearing sweatpants. You'll feel better to get dressed up, put some make up on, & go out for once. Don't feel guilty for taking some "me time" either!

5. Ignore all the advice (except what actually seems legitimate). I know, I know, I just gave you my advice, but you can take it or leave it! At the end of the day, you are mama, & that means you (& daddy!) know best. Do what works for you.

XO, & good luck mamas!